Monday, 5 November 2012

Why do kids cover their eyes when hiding?

You know how children often cover their eyes when they want to hide? Well, Cambridge researchers wanted to discover why, and here's an amazing quote from their findings...

"In both studies so far, when the children thought they were invisible by virtue of their eyes being covered, they nonetheless agreed that their head and their body were visible. They seemed to be making a distinction between their 'self' that was hidden, and their body, which was still visible. Taken together with the fact that it was the concealment of the eyes that seemed to be the crucial factor for feeling hidden, the researchers wondered if their invisibility beliefs were based around the idea that there must be eye contact between two people—a meeting of gazes—for them to see each other (or at least, to see their 'selves')."

How sweet is that? Children are fascinating.
(Via Kottke)

Motherhood Mondays: DIY teepee for a child

How inviting is this lace teepee? Since lots of readers loved the teepee in Abbey's apartment, we figured we'd share an easy way to make one yourself. Wouldn't it be a fun place to cuddle up, take a nap and read books? Here are the instructions...
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Little Lincecum


Toby had a second chance to trick-or-treat last night because his friend's apartment building hosted a rescheduled Halloween night for kids in the city. He dressed up as San Francisco Giants' pitcher Tim Lincecum, which was Alex's idea, clearly:)

A note to you


As everyone knows, Hurricane Sandy has done so much damage and the heartbreaking stories just keep coming. It's been a crazy week to say the least. We were very lucky to get through it safe and sound and were incredibly grateful to get our power back on Saturday morning and our heat back this morning. We literally jumped around the apartment when the hallway light clicked on!

It's hard to know how to write about everything on Cup of Jo and what balance to strike. Our thoughts and actions are consumed by the aftermath and ways to help, but also there's value in trying to keep positive and creating a place where people can come for a little pick-me-up, especially during a tough time like this.

So after thinking a lot about it, I'm planning to keep regular posts going on Cup of Jo, and I'll be posting about relief efforts on Twitter and Facebook. And I'm very happy to be co-hosting a fundraising bake sale in Soho this weekend, so I'll keep you guys posted on that (and would love to see you there!).

Thank you so much. Hope you are safe and cozy today, and lots of love to you.

Joannaxoxo

Friday, 2 November 2012

Have a great weekend.


Do you have any fun plans for the weekend? We're going to our friends' house for dinner, and I'm psyched to see the hilarious Louis C.K. on Saturday Night Live. Hope you have a good one, and here's a short list of fun posts from around the web...

Rainbows.

Put an egg on it.

Before-and-after bedroom.

What a stunning wedding dress.

Marvelous cookies.

Fascinating post on toddler discipline.

Cool business card stamp.

Meet the candidates.

City Hall wedding style.

My brother took this photo last night from the Empire State Building. Wow!

Here are some great ways to help people affected by the hurricane.

Plus, three posts you may have missed:
* Hot toddies.
* Missing phone.
* Tiny dancer.

This is a shorter list than usual this week, so find more on Pinterest, if you'd like! Also, I just found out that J.Crew is giving 25% off and free shipping until Thursday, if you're doing any winter shopping. Have a good one, everyone. xoxo

(Photo from Moonrise Kingdom)

Better book titles

This hilarious website chooses more fitting titles for famous books. Made me laugh.

(Thanks, Colby)

Thursday, 1 November 2012

Hurricane week: photos

How are you all doing? Is everyone OK after the hurricane? The photos of the aftermath have been shocking, and we've been thinking so much about everyone who was affected. How devastating for those who lost their homes, and this story was utterly heartbreaking. We feel so, so lucky to have gotten through the hurricane unscathed. Lower Manhattan still doesn't have power, so our apartment is pitch black, but we're safe and fine. Here are a few of our photos from this crazy week, if you'd like to see...
On Monday, the day the hurricane was heading our way, Toby and I went for a little morning walk around our neighborhood, along with his Thomas-the-Tank-Engine umbrella and a peanut butter sandwich. I wanted to give him a run-around before we got stuck inside for a couple days. His enthusiasm was contagious. Little kids can be so blissfully (and beautifully) unaware.
During our walk, most businesses were closed, except for the pizza place (hurray! of course we ordered a large) and the children's pharmacy, which has a train table. Party at 10am! As a special treat, Toby was allowed to have a purple lollipop, which basically made his whole life.
That afternoon, the rain started, and trees bent over almost halfway in the wind. We ran over to our neighbors' house, where they built a fire and made Negronis and pasta. Toby and their one-year-old daughter spent the afternoon running up and down their hallway and...that's pretty much it. They loved that hallway.
That night, we ran back across the rainy street to our house, and the power went out shortly afterward. We lit candles (including this pumpkin one, which is officially The Coziest Candle in Candle History) and Toby fell fast asleep with his adorable little tractor PJs sticking right up in the air.

The only real bummer was having to throw out everything in our fridge, as Toby was dismayed not to have his morning and bedtime milk. The next morning, I gave him a sippy cup filled with orange juice instead, and tried to make it sound exciting: "Toby! I have a special treat for you! Juice for breakfast! Just like at Meriwether's house!" But after smiling indulgently, he said, matter of factly, "Mat." (=Milk). I was like, "Well, we actually get to drink juice today!" His reply: "Mat." He would not be fooled.
Yesterday, Alex and I walked up to his office in midtown, which had power, so we could check emails, work and recharge our electronics. A whole conference room ended up being dedicated to displaced spouses.
We grabbed Chinese food after work, and everything felt almost normal. But the cab ride home was SPOOKY. As we drove below 31st Street, the city plunged into complete darkness (you can see the view from the taxi window, above). The buildings were towering gray shapes against the moonlight. Suddenly nervous, I asked Alex if we were crazy to go back home, but there were lots of people walking around with flashlights, and a general feel of camaraderie, so we forged ahead.
The French restaurant down our street was actually open! Glowing with flickering candles, the room looked really romantic, and couples were enjoying wine and sandwiches.
Meanwhile, we all agreed that the best decision was for Toby and his beloved babysitter Naudia to take a cab to her apartment in Brooklyn, which had power, so they could have a sleepover! He was so excited.
Naudia was SO sweet and bought a clown costume from a drugstore so they could go trick-or-treating. Toby was Mr. Clown, and she was Mrs. Clown. His friend was a dinosaur. I almost keeled over from the cuteness of her photos, and then almost burst into tears because I wanted to beam myself there so much. How delicious does he look? I can't wait to hear Toby's full recap of the night. We chatted quickly on the phone this morning, after he woke up, and he kept saying, "Silly! Fun!"

Really hope you are all doing OK and hanging in there! Here are a few more photos from the news...
And did you see this rainbow arched over the city after the hurricane? Our hearts go out to everyone affected by the storm. Here's a great list of ways to help. All our best wishes to you and your loved ones. xoxo

P.S. I'm bumping the challenge series to next week, thank you! xoxo

(Bottom news photos from The Boston Globe, The Atlantic, Gothamist, MTA's flickr stream, Inga, Reuters/Lucas Jackson and Andjelicaaa's Instagram)